When I find a nice profile, I think it is best to write a few messages on here first and then possibly move forward. I want to find a special woman but I believe that rushing is not a good idea!!! - Obviously you don't want to write a lot of messages, but I think learning what you have in common with someone is a good thing! - So here is the question: Do you think that writing a few messages on a website like this one first is still the right move or do you think that is not needed anymore?