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The "nice guy" and the "bad boy"

by PolePosition09, Oct/03/2021
Most of us have heard the phrase "nice guys finish last".

Some people will argue that it is not true, but most of the time the "nice guy" does in fact lose. Usually, the "bad boy" does better in business and in dating. The bad boy loses some times too, just not as often!

This trend is not about how kind and caring a man is... it is about having the right mindset.

A man ("bad boy" or a "nice guy") MUST remember that there are:

- MANY business opportunities that will come his way

- MANY women that will date him.

* If a man forgets that fact, he will loose again and again.

With that in mind... That business opportunity must be great for the man to invest extra effort into it. Also.... A woman must be great for the man to invest more effort into her.

If the business opportunity is below average... he should not make the deal. If a woman is below average...he should leave her alone.

Side note: Many of these ideas can be flipped and used for nice women or bad girls but the well known phrase is about nice guys so this post is written with that focus. Also, no matter what your profession is or what your dating preferences are, the concepts remain the same.

Good luck to everyone and remember to be true to who you are and enjoy life... life is supposed to be fun!
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By sonformomi, Oct/16/2021

this was important to me it displays my life, what i did wrong. Dammit i was to nice i couldnt work i didnt know how to memorize the skill. I didnt know things like landscapeing was the labour i intended. But it was i just had no idea i was doing that when i did repairs at the places ive lived. So i should focus on work? and being mysteriously badder with woman? i had chances but always forgot to ask for contacts

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