Back in the sixties and seventies it was the hippy generation, flower children, free love. With the advent of birth control women saw this as a relief from possible pregnancy and it generated the swinger movement where sex was traded like a commodity. However with this came powerful STD's used to be the worst you could get was something treatable with a shot, now we have AIDS and 7 other STDs 1 of which isn't even treatable as its a super bug that nothing a Dr. has can treat it. even safe sex isn't really safe either the only thing is no sex until you find someone and get them tested to be sure your not contracting something nasty. Men are carriers for HPV this virus will cause Cervical Cancer. This is why every time I get into a situation where sex could be involved I think even with protection you can get this or that is it worth getting something that is untreatable? Don't get me wrong here I love sex with the right person, so I guess before you jump between the sheets with your new love both of you get tested for everything that is out there first and don't cheat on your new love when your cleared of possible STD's My last wife cheated on me she confessed to 25 different partners while we were married. I got tested straight away and got lucky no STD's and just in case every 5 years after got an aids test. Just to be sure something came up later AIDS does not appear for at least 5 years however the anti body shows up a lot sooner. So the Axiom is Be safe or be sorry.