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Im the one, Your Mother WARNED you about !!!
|I am a||Man|
|From||Whangarei, New Zealand|
|Height||5'8" - 5'11" (171-180cm)|
|Want children||No matters|
|Education||AA (2 years college)|
|I look for a||woman, 26-40 y.o. any ethnicity for activity partner, friendship, relationship, romance, travel partner|
|Preferable body type||Average|
More about me:
Hi from my end of the world, and I would like to take this time to let you know a little more about me,
I was born in May 1975 and at the age of 12 years old I climbed, a very old pine tree to have a cigarette, and then I got sooooo light headed that i slipped and fell. I fell 130 feet, which paralyzed my legs, and also did other major damage to my lungsm ribs, bones, but lucikly nothing ever happened to my arms or head. Everything else works PERFECTLY. And I DO MEAN EVERYTHING !!! because sooner or later im gonna get asked if I can still get it up. Yup I sure can.
I had corrective surgery in 2001 which means they put S/steel rods inside my back from the top to the bottom to straighten my back as I was still growing after my accident and my spine grew crooked, so had that surgery and that gave me loads more confidence.
I hated being on the benefit getting just over $100 per week so I decided to start a career, and got a part time job as a call centre rep for Meridian Energy. Well after about 6 months of that I got to work Full Time which was great and over the years I gradually recieved my degree in marketing management and strarte my business degree. A couple of years ago I was the Northern Operations Manager for a major finance company and was earning a really good wage.
Well....... one day at work, itwas lunchtime and my work was wituated on the 7th floor, so I got in the lift by myself and hit "g" for ground, and the lift started to go towards the ground floor. Well it stopped in between level 5 and 6and got stuck. so I pressed the button and spoke to a lady over the intercom and she was trying to sort it out. Nothing was happening so she said she will reset the settings and hopefully that will work. It worked alright. As soon as she reset it, the lifts brakes gave out and it freefell 5 floors and smashed into the ground. I was a mess. I snapped the new rods in my back in 28 places and punctured mylungs etc, however, being the stubborn guy I am, I just said to my boss that I think something bad has happened and I need to go to hospital, so I got into my car and went to the hospital where they threw me directly into a 32 hour operation. As if thats not bad enough, they didnt steorlise the rods properly and attached to the rods was the Staphlicoccuss Areus Bug, which is life threatening, and because it is attached to my rods and not the bone, I cannot get rid of it, so rather I have to take lifetime anti biotics to keep the bug at bay. If I miss taking my anti biotics then I will die within 24 hours , so its really really important that i take them. hehe.
Now you would think that I would be sitting around with a blanket on my crippled legs feeling sorry for myself.......well fuck that. Life is WAY to short to be doing stupid things like that. I thank the gods above every morning I am able to wake up and open my eyes to a new and beautiful day.
I dont get upset very often due to my accident because I have met a load of people throughout my life who are so much worse off than me. So I cant walk.... WHO THE HELL CARES ??? There are people out there who cannot move their arms, legs neck or anything and they cant talk, all they can do is raise their eyebrows to say yes or no.
So I am GREATFUL for what has happened to me and am thankful that I still have the use of my arms and most of all full use of my brain. (some may argue that point hehehehe).
If there is anything you want to know about me then just ask, cause you won't know until you ask, and I am not one of thosepeople that get upset talking about it. Sure I get a lot of pain and am on some pain killers, but I am thankful for the pain because it means I can feel it and that I am alive.
I live each day to the fullest and try my best to do something different each day. A lot of people find it weird having a partner in a chair, but dont want anyone looking after me. If you want to be part of my life, then that would be fantastic, but please do not feel sorry for me, or try to do things for me as it frustrates me quite a bit. I would much rather you be holding my hand walking BESIDE me, and having lots of laughs etc as this is what life is all about. Love and laughter.
Anyway like I say, if you have any questions, please ask and I will answer ANYTHING that you may have,
Take care and be good if you can.
Regards and best wishes
About my ideal partner:
Well can what do I put here.
I am looking for that someone who can understand that living with a partner in a wheelchair is NO different to living with your average Joe Bloggs. Ok I have a set of wheels to get around on, rather than a set of legs, but at the end of the day who really gives a shit right. If you are going to give me pity or feel sorry for me, then just keep flicking through because I will just tell you where to get off.
I would like someone, who KNOWS what they want out of life and if what you want is to be treated like a queen at all times, then you have come to the right place.
I will treat you with the utmost repect and admiration that life can offer, however I do expect it all to be returned as well.
WHAT I DONT WANT:
Someone who is not sure who they are
Someone who wants to look after me
Someone who is UNSURE about the chair thing
Someone who only wants mefor my money etc
WHAT I DO WANT:
Someone who is going to treat me as an equal
Someone who isnt afraid of what others may say
Someone who will stand beside me and know that my love for them is unconditional.
Someone who has a fantastic sense of humour
Someone who has a gfeat personality
Someone who is clean and hygienic (not just leave rubbish laying around the house or food scraps on the floor etc. (believe me, my ex was like that) and I got soooo sick and tired of having to pick things up after her.
Someone who gets on with their family as family is very important to me.
I think that will do it for now. Im just a big romantic looking for someone to share my lcrazy life with. I jjst want someone who I can sit down and have a big laugh over everything and anything.
If that is you.... Then what are waitng for.. SEND ME A MESSAGE !!! I'm sitting here waiting for your messages to start flowing in. lol
Thanks for taking the time to read this.