2007tasha blog post

Searching for someone...

'Have a seat! Comfortable? Good, let me introduce myself to you then...'


I am here to represent myself.....finding the right companion (prefer companionship over marriage) is the most important thing to me and that is why I want to find him on my own. I believe that having trust and honesty in a relationship is paramount. I gravitate towards simple, natural people who have a positive orientation and appreciate life's deeper, more refined values. I am looking for someone who makes the world seem to stop when he's around. Unparalleled friendship, unprecedented companionship, and unconditional acceptance give us the foundation for a lasting relationship.

Looking for a well educated, intelligent, caring and an honest life partner. Looks are not very important to me. Someone who knows his priorities in life. An intelligent man who puts in his best in whatever he does .......I am looking for someone whom I can lookup to for advice and guidance. Someone who would be willing to be my best critic, who would help me become a better human being.

I just want that 'old fashioned' feeling of being taken care of, needed and appreciated, even if 'virtual' to start with. Someone I'd look forward to seeing in my mailbox, talk about how his/my day was..... Share feelings we both can't seem to share with the people we are with, at the moment. Someone who'd connect, somewhat the one who is wired for me and would understand what I am saying, and the things I haven't said.
Spin with me a different reality and forget the world.

It's a heavenly feeling, and I guess I'd like to find a person who appreciates how privileged we are, how little it takes to make a positive difference, and derives his joy from giving. Don't get me wrong, I'm no saint myself and have my delicious vices. I don't expect you to be striving for perfection all the time.

All in all - a genuine, level headed guy with realistic expectations from others and himself(and life in general)...who is willing to grow (and let grow) with a companion...

Its important we make a CONNECTION..........and if IT FITS IT FITS. Together we should be able to have fun and mutual respect is of paramount importance. Someone who’s not afraid to share his dreams with me and believes that at the end of the day no matter how perfect or imperfect we are, all that counts is love and mutual admiration which supersedes all criteria. I dislike complicated personalities, have a big allergy towards people who are comfortable living with lies and secrets.

About me - Am divorced have a mind of my own....good education, good morals, good looks, good cook, good lover, lots of good ideas and a good heart have travelled the world extensively, experienced multiple cultures.........which has made me choose the BEST OF THE BEST!!! For my life. Am raised catholic but then would respect your beliefs. Pretty social by nature..But don't underestimate the need for space (mine as well as others)...appreciate the same traits in others as well. Conversations ignite me, music sustains me and traveling revives me.....someday I'd like to travel the world over :) Good laugh, good food and sound sleep, to me, are absolute necessities. I enjoy watching movies , reading, cooking, outings and sometimes doing absolutely nothing (talking over a flute of bubbly).Just want to celebrate Simple and Pure LOVE............

.......So if your free spirited and want to liberate yourself and need a break from your existing life.........maybe want to live Peru for a while, I'd love to hear from you. Lets get talking and see what we can cook up. If we hit of.........then I could move to …..Your country or you could move to Peru or we could both move to some remote island in some corner of the world and make a happy life.

PS: You can be anywhere between 49-55, don’t believe in color or creed...........but "YES" you need to be SINGLE IN EVERYWAY!!!
I AM NOT DESPERATE........JUST HOPEFUL.