Dhana blog post

Define Love?

Love is a wonderful thing that can make or break us.

We all have our own goal to look for someone to love. Oftentimes we fall for the wrong person. Unfortunately, the more we try to force ourselves in finding Mr/Ms. Right, the more we make mistakes and get hurt. Love has its own way of finding us. Once we find love, never embrace it too tight so that when it decides to leave, it won’t be hard for us to let go.

We had the right love at the wrong time. This is the common line of an unsuccessful relationship. But in reality, love knows no time or boundaries. It comes when we least expect it, and leaves when we’re very much dependent on it. Why? The reason is because Love has its way of teaching us. That is, we need to learn to love ourselves first before anyone else. We need to learn to accept our own complexities and ask for forgiveness before we accuse someone of their own shortcomings.

Love begins with one hello. They say that friends can be lovers but lover can’t be friends. I disagree. When a relationship started from strangers to lovers, once you lost the boy or the girl, you also lose your friend. But if you started out as friends, you will treasure the friendship and will accept that it is more important than your special kind of relationship.

Love is not about owning. There’s always a reason why we fall in and out of love. As long as there is acceptance, we can always move on with our lives. Endings are also beginnings, so in every painful experience, we need to understand that there’s a reason for that and we still have something to look forward.

Love moves in mysterious ways. It is not about what’s going to happen next. It is about how we are going to make the best of it today while we’re still in love. As long as we’re happy, then go with the flow and follow your heart. When the time comes that it hurts us more than it inspires us, then we have to let it go. Love is not supposed to hurt us. It should be the reason to live. Love should have no condition, no demand, no restriction, and no reservation. Think about it.