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I am a good guy looking for a friendship that could lead to a relationship I am very shy and find it hard to meet women and would like to start slow and get to know someone and see where it goes. I work 2nd shift so that also makes it hard to get out and date a lot. I love to cook, watch a good movie or catch a game