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by Gab, Aug/07/2020What's the greatest lesson you learn in love, relationship, breakups and moving on?
Sir tender... I feel you😔😔..
May I ask , how many break ups you went through in your entire life? And who gave you the most painful experience? Just don't drag any name🤣
Ma'am NGavrilova... Thank you, You make me grin with your first sentence😁 but I totally agree with you , MATURE RELATIONSHIP is all about reciprocity. If he isn't going to give u what you need, then stop giving him what he want. Stop allowing him to make withdrawals without demanding to make deposit back into you.. Just leave ... Let's leave🤣🤣
Hi! Gab, the first time it was my very first girlfriend when I was 10 years old. We hit it off over a weekend and by Sunday she decided not to see me any longer. Puppy love is what we call it in the USA and it was not a good time for me. I was a bundle of nerves all through that weekend. Then to have her reject me was a crushing blow for me. The second time I was 19 and I met a lady in Germany while I was in the US Army. She was also in the Army as time progressed I started to fall in love with her. Unknown to me she was seeking another. She never indicated an interest in me, but I did have one for her. Over the course of a few weeks, I got to the point of getting ready to ask her out. When she finally realized my interest in her she immediately told me that she only valued me as her friend. I was crushed by our exchange. I didn't tell her that of course. We then went our separate ways. The third time it was my wife of 22 years she divorced me because of something that I did which I won't discuss. I was completely stunned by that breakup, to put it mildly. None of us are perfect and we must learn from our mistakes. Maturity along with life's lessons are the best teachers. I am a much better person now but could never have accomplished that without Jesus in my life.
I see, I can imagine how toughed those break ups for you, but at least and what's important is you've learned from those experiences and I'm sure it made u strong too.
Thanks for sharing.
God bless your heart.
(Women side) A relationship: After getting to learn about someone online, then meeting, thinking of a match? But later realizing, they get sneeky & end up to be using you for their selfish ego.Uggh! ..No-way!
lesson learned! Look for red-flag.
There's always someone out there much better. 😉 (wink)
Yeah, soooo true... I like what you said about "using" , I have 100% believe on that, many men are users.
And that "red flag" too.. it's not a good feeling but never ever take it for granted, it will save you from any danger and pain... Better to escape right away before it gets worse.
Thank you ma'am Vic2ria for your thought, you perfectly voice out what I wanted to pinpoint.
Have a nice day😉
Hello ma'am Treegirl... Yeah I agree to you.. we should not take the "red flag" for granted.
