May everyone be happy!
by janezyz6789,May/27/2019In China, if you are a girl, No matter how you like H-I-M, the initiative in love must be that MAN. If he does not take the initiative, would rather miss. What do you think?Please give me your opinion. thanks! May everyone be happy!
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Love should come from the heart of the two people in love. Not from the society or government that they live in. :)
thanks for your comments,yes,you are right. in some sense, men and women are different.from the psychological's point of view, females are shy and like the feeling of being loved.
You're very welcome Miss Jane. I am enjoying reading what you post on here. :)
A woman who is in love should at times display some aggression in a sexual sense. If you want something but are afraid to make it known, how would you mate know. Some times if you always hold back you will miss your mate
to: TenderlyYours, May/28/2019
My mother died early. in order to live, I studied English by myself. I like learning new culture and active things both in mental and physical. After all, there are differences in culture between Chinese and Western, My words do not convey my ideas put together with the points i want to say.Please forgive me and give me more advice.thanks and best wishes!
to: Armyman, May/28/2019
If you do exercise, you'll meet people who loves to do exercise.
If you buy vegetables , you will meet people who knows to cook
If you write, you will meet people who loves to think
What kind of people do you want to meet
What kind of person did you make yourself first.thanks and a nice day!
As far as your original comment re: "man must take initiative", I believe it goes to there "Tarzan" instinct you know "me man". Sometimes a man should just accept a flirt..."hello, look at me, I'm interested!"
OOps made a grammar mistake: correction above second line, second word should be "their".
to: fairytaleprincess, Jun/15/2019
thanks for your advice. my angel sister， let me share my view and opinion:
at first, people and animals are the same on emotion, we just have an extra layer of rational communication, self-control and cognition.
i rarely see female animals chasing male animals, i think we have violated the natural/primitive laws of the animal world（hahaha........）
of course, i don't object to female chase and flirt, it seems to be the lubricant that keeps the house running.maybe that is the intelligent woman after marriage to the family use of the governor, on the other hand, before marriage and after the woman's feelings is different. before marriage is waiting, after marriage is life
And I have heard that China is enough modern and developed and that females there initiate likes| dates by their own. Percentage of males are much higher than females what makes females queens in making choices.
Its pretty obvious to me that women in china do not share the same freedoms that we in America do. And because of that the Party of China regulates how people must act. At my work I asked a number of Chinese we have that live in USA and hold a green card. I ask do you want to go back to china not one wants to go back they all say china is too restrictive also if any of them went back they could only take 1 child with them most here have 4 children and that they would be penalized for not following china policy on bearing children.