The meshing is the important part.. that click, camaraderie, that spark, that feeling when someone REALLY gets you, and you get them. That mutual respect and admiration, and that twinge of "I'm missing you" when you're not around. Yea, that's the good stuff.
I'm also not getting this thing when someone says they are 'taking a break' in their relationship. That's a lame excuse for cheating. I don't take breaks. When I'm with someone, I'm all in for the long haul, you know? Come hell or high water, or honey and good times, I'm hanging in there with my partner, and I expect him to hang in too - that's what love is. If the need for a "break" comes up, then I'm done for good, not for just a minute.
One other thing guys, not all gals like a bunch of innuendo and raunchy talk, and a bunch of lines and come-ons. Just be real, talk about life, what makes you you. Its far more intriguing than generic one liners, flirty talk, and trying to steer the convo to something sexual. That stuff gets so old and tiring, or maybe I'm just old and tired! hah. I guess you guys have your issues with us gals on here too.
This online stuff is hard to navigate sometimes, but I'm finding the real world to be just as confusing these days when chilling and watching Netflix apparently doesn't just mean popcorn and a movie anymore :(