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Me again

Life is a Choice, Courage Make Decisions!

by Lusi, Dec/02/2011
Who is responsible for all of your current life circumstances? Your own or someone else? Many people who blame others. Some are blaming the family (parents, spouse, etc.). Or the environment in which to work, boss etc.. Or the more ironic to blame God for all the failures they experienced.
Unfortunately many do not realize that what they have done in the past to determine what would we be now. Whatever you do in the past, be it positive or negative, you are the one who took that option. So it all happens over your own choices rather than others.
Life is a choice. You can choose to only see obstacles or you just prefer to see a challenge as a unique and new experience. May you and I'll decide what's best. Brave step for a better future. Venture out of comfort zone! Freedom ..... !! And that is not less important ..... Time Freedom! Welcome to take a choice! Smile
Have a nice weekend everyone!!
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Me again
By Lusi, Dec/04/2011

Iosif, You're exactly right with your comments.
Well, choiced what I meant here is not just a road or an attempt or act of making a decision on something other than (= choose). Options here also includes what is selected; options or alternatives are offered. Thus, expression of LIFE IS A CHOICE includes the issue whether or not to live as an option or choice.
When listening to two points above, to answer whether or not LIFE IS A CHOICE certainly not as simple to understand life as a "contains" a series of choices that are faced in every person from wake to sleep again; since from birth to death. If the birth is one of the meanings that are included in Life itself, which is living as a process, is there any we choose certain things about our birth? Obviously no one who chooses to be born as male or female, was born with what nationality, and so on. Up here, we also need to think that CHOICE is also about a person in determining AWARENESS choices, right? That is, with that awareness, a person was confronted on the conditions in which they actually choose.
It can not be denied that in this life, each of us faced with various options that could have an impact on the rest of our lives. But indicated also that life is not just a mere daily routine. Life also includes the birth and death. Again, as already described previously, if life begins with the certainty that the birth is not a personal choice, and then ends with the mystery of death also leaves uncertainty that it is an option, it can be said that life is a choice? In my opinion, "safer" to say Life contains the options but not an option.
In fact the journey of life can be predicted? Will be what and how? Humans are given the opportunity broadest broadest sense, have to deal with the dynamics of life that is constantly evolving. Humans choose which direction to choose. Stretching direction and so many, people would freely choose which way to achieve it, all it is a choice.
Each option will be presented again at the next choices. Among the goals of human remains there is a purpose, there is still a desire, willingness therein. And eventually people come back again faced with the choice, and so on ...

Life had to choose ... .... every time we are faced with choices to achieve the desire of the goals that will never end.

Life had to choose, but life is not an option.

So what exactly is a "choice" in life if "life is not an option?" In my opinion is "LIFE IS NOT BEING SELECTED but is a CHOICE TO BE ADULT"



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