When you start with a new partner, you should be transparent about your reason for or interest in being in a committed relationship. Some people are not looking for a long-term commitment because they are not ready to do the work that is required. If you are not ready, just say so and give the other person the opportunity to explain what they are looking for as well. If you both are not ready for the same thing, kindly admit that the two of you are not looking for the same thing and move on to finding someone more compatible.
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