Are men and women in 2023 ready to be in a committed relationship?
by 7Mikavelli57,Apr/11/2023
Hello and peace to all! My name is Mikavelli, and I am a psychologist. I have been studying human behavior for a few years now, and I have learned that people will say anything to make you believe in them. Men and women will say that they are ready to settle down and start a family, but are they serious? Too many times, people get into relationships for the wrong reasons and back out of them, breaking their partner's heart. I believe that in a relationship, you have to be unselfish and open-minded. Materialistic things have to be thrown out the window, greed has to be buried, and you must be willing to learn as much as possible about your new partner.
When you start with a new partner, you should be transparent about your reason for or interest in being in a committed relationship. Some people are not looking for a long-term commitment because they are not ready to do the work that is required. If you are not ready, just say so and give the other person the opportunity to explain what they are looking for as well. If you both are not ready for the same thing, kindly admit that the two of you are not looking for the same thing and move on to finding someone more compatible.
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Best regards,
Mikavelli,
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Greetings,
Hope this finds you in good health and spirit!
I totally appreciate your thoughtful post here; good stuff.
I felt compelled to point out that you would appear to be functioning on a high level of consciousness, so to speak, and that for two-way transparency to work, the new partner would pretty much have to be functioning at that same (or at least very near) high level. This is not always the case, to put it mildly.
But yeah, so long as the partner is not intentionally being dishonest in order to fulfill their actual agenda, the only hindrance would be that they aren't seeing nearly as big of a picture as you are.
Best Regards, ?
Rob
You must have a lot of patients with different personalities & behaviors. I aree people go online looking and giving their best shot for Friends,a Partner or Companions but commitments are not too often successful.There are those who meet & go on trials & later on fail to see its not a match.
Others, got bad experiences that hook them to rush & be tied. Ending them to a short commitment of a family or their plain partner ending them to divorce/split.Its a sad situation that affects ones' emotion and around them in the society that involves knowing them supposedly to be a happy couple...Ugghh! ?
So, second time around,lesson learned, tend for them to think twice. Not really serious? yes..thats one reason, they react this way--???️
Lucky ones/couples, Good for them !!!They found their life partners in life. Their gone of this site. Probably only see them leave their reviews for the site readers to read. ?