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going Dutch

by leggyblonde, Nov/15/2021
Hi, I find it so confusing when out on a date with a guy I like about food. I generally let him take the lead when it comes to ordering and even paying. Most guys insist on paying but if I think we will not be having a second date I will offer to go halves as it seems the right thing to do. Of course he probably things she is not going to see me again so that is why she suggested it. This situation happens a lot so I now let him buy me dinner or whatever and thank him with a kiss or two as I don't want the date to tail off.
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By jerryb4u, Nov/17/2021

From my own experience, I prefer to pay for the entire bill simply because I want to show the proper respect to my guest. I don't like to think about whether or not we will have a second date. If we are compatible on that first date and decide its worth another trip, then, that situation will dictate what happens later on. There were a couple ladies who drove a distance just to go with me to a dinner and a show at the local theater. She already paid for her gas to travel x amount of miles and while I was happy she did that I was rather disappointed she used her money when I was willing to help pay for her fuel. With that being said, I think guys need to make sure they are at least offering to go that extra mile to help out. Just my two cents.

---Be yourself---
By Vic2ria, Nov/18/2021

My thought about paying who, for a date.I would say,its best the guys do the first move,let the old fashion ways work and besides you would be lucky, the lady did come to meet you & tried to give you guys a chance. Whether it both work for both or theres a next time, it will still be a blessing. Did both appear in the date day--So do the math--:-)

By leggyblonde, Nov/18/2021

Yes I like it if a guy pays first, like you say the old fashioned way.

By ???, Nov/19/2021

As far as I know, the guy should pay the bill. It is the right thing to do. It is degrading on the part of the guy to have the lady pay for the food :) :) :)

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By Gab, Nov/21/2021

Women should normalize saying what they want to order and eat or else , they would go home HUNGRY ๐Ÿ˜‚ because they don't like the food being ordered, well, at least , that's one thing I've learned from dating๐Ÿ˜

Have a nice time of day
By Olga777, Nov/30/2021

If he canโ€™t pay for dinner, then you donโ€™t need him.

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