Kamau

More about me:

We are all, without exception, a culmination of our experiences both good, and bad. It is part of the human condition. Time may indeed heal all wounds, but the scars still remain. It seems that we measure each other based on our worst, or most recent experiences. But no two men are the same, just as no two women are alike. We are as divers as the four winds. These differences are often overlooked, and marginalized because of fear born from bad experiences. We internally justify this behavior, while externally proclaiming that we have grown, and evolved from this mindset. Don't get me wrong...there should aways some trepidation when we meet someone new. And we should never trust first impression. But fear should not paralyze us. 
Love takes courage, and courage is not the absence of fear. Fear will always serve itself, while courage will always serve those whom we deem important. Yes...relationships are complexed and mazeion, but nothing worthwhile ever comes easy. 
The will to even begin seems to be woefully missing. The good men and women are eclipsed by our past bad choices. What we say we want, is rarely but we choose. If you are single or loosely involved, it is by choice, not by design. I wish you all good luck, and GOD's speed.