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I live alone and rent a clean and roomy efficiency!
|I am a||Man|
|From||Lancaster, Pennsylvania, United States|
|Height||5'8" - 5'11" (171-180cm)|
|Occupation||I work through a temp agency|
|Speak||English, German, Russian|
|Income||$10,000/year and less|
|I look for a||woman, 25-50 y.o. any ethnicity for activity partner, friendship, relationship, romance, casual|
|Preferable body type||Cuddly|
More about me:
I have no kids, no pets and I have no deadly diseases. Many people have told me that I have a very good sense of humor, and that I also have a very good personality and that I am very easy to talk to.
I also happen to be a very good cook, prepared with clean hands and in a very clean environment.
I am self taught in the area of Commercial Aircraft Design and Drafting. The accuracy of my most technical work is to within 1/100th of an inch FREE-HAND.
I am NOT compatible with a totally unaffectionate and u attentive woman. Nor will I settle for such an unpleasant mate. Just as you'll rightfully expect me to be attentive to your needs and desires... be attentive to mine, or I will WALK.
About my ideal partner:
Please be a SwF (Single White Female), between the ages of 25, and 50.
> Please be clean, well-kept, polite as I assure you I am as well.
> Please be both kindhearted, easy to talk to, and affectionate.
> I prefer that you live no further than 100 miles from my zip code, of: 17602 (Lancaster, PA, USA)
====!PLEASE Pay Attention!====
I am NOT compatible, w/an unaffectionate woman. If you are unable/unwilling to stomach handling a man who's just as affectionate as he is intelligent, then PLEASE GO AWAY. I am NOT geared to A STRICTLY PLATONIC RELATIONSHIP. I am a REAL man w/REAL feelings, and they MUST be respected in the same fashion that you wish for your feelings and desires to be equally respected. End of story.
I prefer that if you do have kids, that they do not live at home.
I do not mind what your living situation is, just PLEASE DO NOT allow mammy and daddy/your aid worker (if you have any) to make decisions for you, concerning your man. (me in this case) Been there, done that. Be woman enough--AND adult enough to handle your own relationship.
I prefer a woman who knows how to cook, OR who is at least willing to learn how to.
I prefer dating a woman who has a good head on her shoulders. What does that mean? Please know something. Please AT LEAST be a H.S GRADUATE. I ask for nothing else. KNOW SOMETHING. A basic education is important, for a variety of reasons, and I want you to do the right thing, by earning your GED, if you've not already graduated. I earned my GED, and believe me... If I was able to do it, YOU are able to do it.
I do not mind how well-rooted you are on whatever path you're on, but... BUT:
I am NOT seeking, nor am I interested in a woman who uses her religious beliefs to snub and reject my feelings, as a man. I am NOT interested in that behavior. I have both 'been there', and I have 'done that', and I am DONE w/that. I deserve better. Keep in mind that my feelings are just as important as yours, and they WILL be respected,or I WILL blow you off. Treat me the way you want to be treated, in the reverse.
Good communication is KEY to ANY successful relationship. That having been said, I am only seeking a woman who understands the wisdom of that whole concept. Because I'd much rather be alone, than have someone who arrogantly cuts me off, w/out cause. Treat me the way in which you want me, to treat you. And by that same token, sow what you wish to reap.
I prefer that you drive--and on that one note, PLEASE DRIVE SOMETHING. Drive... A bike... A motor scooter... A pogo-stick... A bus... A truck... A plane... Just drive something. At least know how to use public transportation. I am morbidly SICK TO DEATH of dating transportationally-hobbled and broken women, who are too stunted to DRIVE SOMETHING. No good, unacceptable. DRIVE.
===On The Issue Of Disease===
IF... you are bed-ridden and so badly hobbled and broken to where you are living in an inaccessible place where even I cannot even visit you, I am very sorry for your hard luck, but please, honey... leave me alone. I am NOT a healthcare worker, nor do I get paid like one. If yer THAT stricken and hobbled with disease at the outset/get-go, then you need to be institutionalized. Not tryn'a hook some unsuspecting guy, on a dating site.
====On The Topic of Fetishes====
Do I have fetishes? YES, I do(!) Will I mention them in here--out in the open, in a public blog? Hell, no! But if you ask me privately, I will reveal s-o-m-e of them, to you. One of the fetish groups which I am not now, nor will I EVER oblige to be a part of, is that of the fetish of: Sado-Masachism.
===Whom I Will NOT Date===
I NEVER date ANYONE who is here in the United States on a Temporary Visa. IF... you desire more from me than a basic friendship, YOU WILL be a LEGAL CITIZEN of the United States. PERIOD. Otherwise, you will NOT get some'a THIS, and I am NOT kidding.
Lastly, be honest, be yourself, and PLEASE don't be f-a-k-e-. Thank you so very kindly for your time, and I look forward to your response.