Bookwormlady blog posts

Online communication often ends up with a question Who travels? Sometimes the man visits first. Sometimes the woman does. Sometimes they meet in a third country. When it comes to real meeting some men can not visit because flights to the Philippines are long and expensive. Most women can not come because they have no visa and money for travel. Someone who genuinely wants a future together is ... Read the whole post

I’ve noticed there are a lot of men seeking Asian girl. Their pages usually have a long list of female friends from the Philippines, Thailand and China. I wonder why these men don’t look for a life partner in their own countries. In a chat one man told me that women from his country are less interested in commitment and that’s why he is looking for a girl from Asia with traditional family values ... Read the whole post

If a man tells you he wants a serious relationship, don't only listen to his words. Just watch his actions. Does he make time for you even when he is busy? Does he remember the things that matter to you? Does he respect your boundaries instead of trying to rush the relationship? An honest man usually wants to know who you are, your dreams, your family and your work. And what makes you laugh and ... Read the whole post

There is another warning I want to share with you. It is not about a dishonest people or a dating scam. I’ve made friends and had a talk with one Filipina in a chat. She told she had met someone through a dating website and she was planning to travel overseas to meet the person she had been communicating with. They discussed her staying in a country for a long period. She was offered a good ... Read the whole post

If you’re dreaming of meeting someone kind, there is nothing wrong with joining a dating site and falling in love with someone from another country. Many beautiful relationships have begun that way. But hope should never replace caution. A few days ago I read an article about a scam that has become more common than many people realise. It explained how criminals create fake online identities on ... Read the whole post

Not long ago a friend shared a story with me. Actually it wasn't even her own story. It belonged to a woman she knew. I don't know whether every detail is exactly as it happened. The woman had met a foreign man through a dating website. He seemed kind, and he was looking for a serious relationship. He spoke about building a future together. He told her she was different from everyone else. She ... Read the whole post

If a Filipina truly likes someone, she wants him to become part of her world. One of the clearest signs is when she introduces him to her family. In the Philippines family is very important. We are raised to value close relationships with parents, siblings, grandparents, and relatives. So when she brings someone home or speak about him with the people closest to her, it means she is beginning to ... Read the whole post

I come from a culture where people do not express their feelings openly. We do not speak about attraction, kiss on the first date or become physically close before we know each other better. I know this can be confusing to some foreign men but it reflects how we were raised. I simply call that traditional. For us feelings often begin quietly. We watch and listen. We ask ourselves not only if I ... Read the whole post

After talking to people online I realized that many foreign men already have a picture of Filipinas in their minds before they even get to know us. They think we're uneducated, and we don't have careers. They think we're only interested in foreigners because we want money or a better life. Sometimes before they even ask my name, they've already decided what kind of woman I am. I grew up in a ... Read the whole post

I'm wishing to find someone from abroad that will be my life time partner I want to try foreign man since I am ready to love again from my broken hearted of my past relationship I been hurt and broken hearted to all my past relationship but now I am single. First of all im not beautiful or even sexy body.im just an ordinary lady but i think i am sweet and simple asian filipina lady as what ... Read the whole post